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* Have you ever felt like you’re sexually broken?
*Do you experience a lack of desire and sex drive?
*Are you frustrated that after you’re with someone for awhile, that spark just disappears?
*Is it difficult or impossible for you to orgasm with a partner?
*Do you wish your now sex life excited you like it used to?
*Does it discourage you that your partner wants it more than you do?
(currently or in past relationships)
*Do you desire more intimacy and connection in relationship?
*Do you get stuck in your head and have a hard time relaxing during sex?
*Is it difficult or near impossible for you to initiate sex, even when you want it?
*Do you desire to communicate sexually with your partner but fear it will kill the mood?
*Do you wish your partner, current or future, knew how to touch you in ways that makes you weak in the knees?
*Do you wish you knew exactly what your sexual needs and desires are and how to communicate them?
*Do you feel disconnected from yourself sexually?
If yes, then you’re in the right place.
Hi, I’m Kat Trimarco, certified in sex coaching and spiritual psychology and I’ve personally experienced all of the above mentioned.
Actually, for years.
I know exactly what it’s like to feel disconnected from my sexuality, my desires and my body. I spent a lot of years feeling like I was sexually broken.
Even through those years, I had an intuition… an inner knowing… that pure sexual magic was possible. I had an intense desire to find it…
And I did!
I was taught absolutely nothing about sex growing up. Aside from how to insert a tampon and that condoms are essential, I didn’t really know sh*t about sex or my body.
As a teenager my sex drive was through the roof, and left to my own devices, I fumbled my way around with boys, discovering what felt good and what didn’t.
But then as an adult, I completely lost my mojo. Even when I was in relationship with men that I loved and felt deeply connected to in my heart and soul, I didn’t really desire sex that much. I wanted to. I wanted to want it. I wanted to make them happy. I wanted them to feel sexually fulfilled and I wanted to feel sexually satisfied and fulfilled too.
I just didn’t know where to start. Or how.
Maybe you can relate.
My turn-on just wasn’t there. I preferred cuddling, making out, and spending quality time together, but I’d often find myself feeling squeamish when it came time to actually have sex. Sometimes it felt like I was just going through the motion so they would feel fulfilled.
Sex wasn’t really feeding my pleasure.
I wished I known how to communicate what I desired sexually, but time and time again my words would fall short. I didn’t have the language to ask for what I wanted. Truthfully, I didn’t really know what I wanted.
What I desired was beyond penis in vagina intercourse. I was desiring connection. On all levels. I wanted to have my soul f*cked open. I wanted to melt and surrender myself beneath the loving weight of my man. I wanted to experience pleasure rippling through my body. But I definitely didn’t know how to give that to myself or how to communicate that to him.
Time and time again, I would have the men I was with, ask me how they could bring me to orgasm.
The truth was, I’d never had an orgasm with a man.
It was easy for me to have an orgasm masturbating. I could bring myself over the edge in a matter of minutes, but as soon as I was with someone, even though it felt good, I didn’t know exactly what I needed or desired to be able to reach orgasm with them.
I so badly wanted to know myself sexually. I so badly wanted to share in all levels of intimacy with men – physically, mentally, emotionally, and spiritually.
But I didn’t know how.
I didn’t know how to communicate the depth of what I was desiring. I didn’t know how to ask for the details of how I wanted my body and my genitals to be touched. I didn’t even know how I wanted to be touched!
But I wanted to know. I really, really wanted to.
This deep yearning and desire inside of me, sent me on a beautiful journey of discovering myself sexually. It was a journey of dismantling all the shame and beliefs I’d picked up along my trail about sex and creating my own empowered sexual identity that felt genuine for me.
It was a journey of coming home to my own sexuality.
I learned exactly what I need to feel safe with a man, how I desire to be touched and what specifically turns me on. I learned how to access my turn-on in a way that feels good to me. I learned how to communicate what I need and desire in relationship and sexually. I learned how to give myself deeper pleasure and orgasms and how to have this experience with a partner too.
I now know, love and trust my body and my desires.
I know what my yes’s and my no’s are sexually and in relationship and how to communicate them while also being open to fun exploration and expansion.
It was about defining what sex and relationship mean for me. Coming home to my true sexual, sensual, and erotic self. Not as it should be defined by someone else, but in a way that feels aligned and empowered for me.
I used to be the least sexy/sexual person I know. And now I feel completely confident and empowered in my desires, my pleasure and my sex.
And this is exactly what I’m going to be teaching you in my one month women’s group coaching program.
This path of discovering and empowering myself sexually created a burning desire inside of me to help all other women know, love, and empower themselves sexually. It led me to becoming a certified sex coach so I can teach, empower and awaken every woman who is ready to reclaim, love, and empower herself sexually.
This is my mission. To bring you home to your sexual self. For you to reclaim your sex, your body, your relationships and ultimately, your life.
Self Approved Sex is a one month intensive group coaching program where I’m going to teach you everything I’ve learned.
This is about you knowing yourself sexually, feeling confident and empowered in your desires and your sex, tapping back into your unique turn-on, awakening your true desires, libido, and arousal.
You’re going to learn how your body and psyche is uniquely wired to receive sexual pleasure. Did you know that each of us has a unique wiring for how we receive pleasure?
A lot of women who work with me feel disconnected from themselves sexually or believe that they’re just not that into sex anymore, even if they were in the past. In truth it’s that they’ve been sexually starved for years and maybe forever. They’ve never truly been fed pleasure and received pleasure in a way that feels soul nourishing.
Because nobody taught us this sh*t! Nobody taught us about our own pleasure, our own pussy’s, our sex and our turn on.
Until now. That’s exactly what I’m here to teach you in this one month intensive group coaching program.
“I used to feel very disconnected in my relationship. I had very little desire for my partner and was starting to feel hopeless, like I would never be satisfied settling down with one person.
Then I learned about my sexual wiring and that I was not being sexually fed for years, and that’s why I wasn’t feeling much sexual desire for my partner. Through learning about each of our sexual needs, we each were able to connect with one another on a much deeper level.
Now I am finally starting to feel desire for my partner, my fears of settling down with him are becoming less and less, and we have a much healthier relationship over all.”
– Cynthia, Coaching Client
Here’s what you’ll learn:
Week 1: Physical
*Discover how your body is uniquely wired to receive sexual pleasure (your Erotic BlueprintTM)
*Discover specifically how your body likes to be touched and how to communicate this to a partner, current or future
*Learn to identify how your current or future partner is sexually wired
*Have a language to discuss and communicate with your partner what it is you both wish to experience sexually
*Learn how to create lasting intimacy and connection
Week 2: Emotional
*Learn how to be fully seen and witnessed in your sexual empowerment
*Feel comfortable and confident in your own body, skin, and sex
*Come home to your authentic sexual self-expression
*Feel safe in your body, your desires, and your sex
Week 3: Mental
*Identify and dismantle your limiting and shame based beliefs about sex
*Create an empowered mindset around sex and intimacy
*Define what being sexually empowered means and feels like to you and wire this into your brain and body
Week 4: Spiritual/Energetic
*This is all about the something more to sex
*Take sex beyond the physical into transcendental, spiritual experiences
*Understand the attraction dynamic and how to create chemistry between you and your partner
Self Approved Sex is for both single women and women in partnership! Knowing yourself sexually is the foundation to a fulfilling and nourishing sex life.
I’ll be teaching and coaching you on both aspects of your sexuality, single and in partnership. My own sexual exploration has taken place both single and while I’ve been with partners. There’s value in both and I’m going to be covering your Self Approved Sex journey and discovery from all angles!
*Kat’s Awaken Your Sensuality meditation! – This is a guided meditation where I take you on an inner journey to reconnect with and awaken your sensual and sexual energy – do this every day or as often as you feel called!
*Pussy Power Hour Training! – this is a free hour long training on how to connect with your genitals. I’ll teach you how to dismantle shame based belief about your body and your genitals so you can create an empowered relationship with your pussy
*Pay in full bonus! – When you pay in full, you receive an authentic Rose Quartz yoni egg for strengthening and healing your vagina – use for kegel exercises, when you’re sleeping, when doing yoga or exercising
“Kat has changed my life in so many ways. Before this coaching I thought I was broken. I love my husband so much but feared that I didn’t have any sexual desire. Throughout the program I learned so much about myself and my false belief systems and the definitions I had connected to sex. With her help I completely changed my mindset and healed from previous experiences and feel like I am actually in my body again.
This has not only helped in my marriage but also in life and business to be connected and empowered in my body and Spirit. It was an incredible experience, so much fun, and we have a whole new marriage. There is a whole new level of love and respect and admiration for each other and I give Kat so much credit and gratitude for that. Every session provided me with a safe space to share my fears and concerns, and supported me in transforming into where I want to be in my life and relationships with others and myself.”
– Ashley, Coaching Client
“I am beyond grateful for this experience as it has cracked open my understanding and awareness of my own sexuality.
I am not broken!
I was a little resistant at first not really knowing what to expect but this has opened the doors to so much possibility, so much to explore, and has laid the groundwork for me… which makes me very excited!
From the bottom of my heart, thank you. You are inspiring, courageous, a kick-ass coach, and a fucking beautiful human!”
– Ann, Coaching Client
How it works!
*We start September 1st!
*All training’s and coaching calls will take place in our top secret, private Facebook Group!
*You’ll have unlimited access to and support from me in the group for the duration of the program!
*If you can’t make the training’s live, the recordings will be in the group and I can still answer all your questions directly!
*We will have a call every week for 4 weeks – the first portion of each call will be a specific training from me and the second half you will receive direct one-on-one coaching from me!
*You’ll have support and community from the other women in the group! This group support is life changing!
*You’ll receive all bonuses, including my Awaken Your Sensuality guided meditation and my Pussy Power Hour training!
Pay in Full – $1147
Payment Plan – two payments of $598
Everything Kat teaches is centered around coming home to your true self – your true soul self, your true sexual self, and living the outward expression of your most authentic and powerful self.
She teaches and coaches women to understand themselves sexually, to access deeper sexual and sensual pleasure in their body and relationships. She helps women know what they desire sexually and know how to communicate and ask for these desires. She is a certified Erotic BlueprintTM Sex Coach, and has earned a certificate in Spiritual Psychology at the University of Santa Monica.
She coaches and teaches women to understand their inner world of thoughts, emotions and energies to overcome limiting beliefs and live a personalized version of your best life.
Kat’s first book, Self Approved – A guide to accepting, loving and expressing the person you truly are, was published in 2017 and is available worldwide on Amazon.com.
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